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Peter Wills's avatar

Too many photos of people with perfect bodies. The ads get your six pack. The websites 20 steps to a new you 🤦‍♂️. We have the bodies we have being comfortable in our skin is what we should all strive for.

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Fanus Gerber's avatar

It does

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smizzo's avatar

but they’ll keep selling it to us until we all assimilate

https://open.substack.com/pub/smizzo/p/the-sexual-tension-between-me-and?r=5mptqo&utm_medium=ios

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Yolanda D.'s avatar

Fabulous article! You really say it like it is. Women have been obsessed with body types for a long time. I'm thrilled, along with the slimmer ones, that curvaceous body types are now accepted everywhere, including in magazines.

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Jody Frost's avatar

Amen sister ("ah men" - can't live with um, can't live without um'! ☺️)! It's true that the organism we are, male or female, is constantly morphing, sometimes by choice, sometimes not so much. To just let everyone be whatever the fuck size they are without judgment? Maybe then we can all relax and be more loving and accepting of each other and ourselves on many levels. 👏🏻👌🏼💥

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Akshay's avatar

Thank you 😊 👍

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René Volpi's avatar

Superficial.

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Laura Roscioli's avatar

What is?

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Laura Roscioli's avatar

❤️

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Phil P Shepherd's avatar

I’m not sure whether, as a guy, I’m qualified, or welcome, to comment here. But I’m autistic, with a tendency, like most autistics, to be ‘direct’ in what I say. So, here goes anyway…

Personally, I ‘prefer’ curvy women (where ‘curvy’ can mean many things which aren’t ’Size Zero’), and I have a thing about big boobs… Having said that, virtually all women *are attractive*, whatever their shape. My mind will always see some feature or other (or done, or many) which make me go ‘she looks good’.

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