So, i think the whole squirting thing has been blown up and glorified into a bigger deal than it is. Also I imagine not every woman has much of a developed skene glands. So if there's not much there, all the trying and efforting toward squirting is going to result in zip and disappointment.
What i think is that there is more pee in the mix than we'd like to think. I think that for some (many?) the idea that pee might be involved makes them squeamish? I can remember when I was young (i'm old now at 68 and still have an active sex life thank you very much 😊🙏🏻), I'd often find that even if I emptied my bladder before sex, I'd feel something like the pressure of the need to pee build along with my approaching orgasm. Because I was concerned about how that might be received, I would be careful not to 'let go' with my orgasm fully. Not always, but sometimes.
Then, menopause hit and things started changing, including my attitude about my sexual expression. I quit giving a fuck what my partner thought. And I got out of my own way! I just gave my body permission to have full, let-loose, hold nothing back expression when I'd cum! And guess what, squirting happened.
I had explored Golden Showers in my 30's pretty thoroughly ( I was in the sex industry then) as I wondered about this vague urge to pee that would build with my orgasms. But I found that there was peeing and there was cumming. They didn't work simultaneously. Like, I couldn't even if I tried, pee at the same time that I was cumming. That said, all the exploring with all that warm wetness (not just mine but theirs) was pretty damn erotic. But, peeing and orgasm were two distinctly different things.
So now, I can't not squirt when I cum. It's not a lot usually. Well, it varies. But I always tri-fold a towel under me.
Happy hunting for that illusive squirt! Enjoy the journey! 🤪💋
It happened once, after a very successful attempt and completion of anal she was literally moaning I did the reach around put in two fingers with a thumb rub and she exploded. I am sure the erotic part of the anal helped but I suspect it was a lot of g spot stimulation and the threefingered cul de sac technique.
A clit vacuum toy always does it for me for some reason? Maybe because I’m forced to let go? Whenever I crack that out I have to grab my splash blanket hehe 🫶🏻
Contrary to what porn wants us to believe, the latest research on squirting refers to it as “a rare event.” And Masters and Johnson said that less than 5% of women squirt. There are no anatomical structures in a woman’s pelvis that can produce more than approximately a teaspoon of fluid and shoot it out of her body besides her bladder. Call it what you like, when a woman squirts more than that during sex, the fluid is urine.
As for "female ejaculation," female ejaculate is produced in very small amounts by the Skene’s glands. These are tiny glands that line part of the urethra in about two-thirds of women. The one-third of women who don’t have Skene’s glands do not produce female ejaculate, yet they can have orgasms that are every bit as intense as the orgasms of any women who have enough Skene’s glands to fill a stadium.
In the two-thirds of women who do have Skene’s glands, some have very few glands, and others have more, so the amount of ejaculate will vary from just a drop or two, to a bit more than a milliliter which, is one-fifth of a teaspoon.
Also, women don’t have the kind of muscles around their urethra that can cause what ejaculate they might produce to come out like male ejaculate. So a woman’s ejaculate might go into her bladder. Again, none of this has anything to do with the intensity of a woman’s orgasms.
So, i think the whole squirting thing has been blown up and glorified into a bigger deal than it is. Also I imagine not every woman has much of a developed skene glands. So if there's not much there, all the trying and efforting toward squirting is going to result in zip and disappointment.
What i think is that there is more pee in the mix than we'd like to think. I think that for some (many?) the idea that pee might be involved makes them squeamish? I can remember when I was young (i'm old now at 68 and still have an active sex life thank you very much 😊🙏🏻), I'd often find that even if I emptied my bladder before sex, I'd feel something like the pressure of the need to pee build along with my approaching orgasm. Because I was concerned about how that might be received, I would be careful not to 'let go' with my orgasm fully. Not always, but sometimes.
Then, menopause hit and things started changing, including my attitude about my sexual expression. I quit giving a fuck what my partner thought. And I got out of my own way! I just gave my body permission to have full, let-loose, hold nothing back expression when I'd cum! And guess what, squirting happened.
I had explored Golden Showers in my 30's pretty thoroughly ( I was in the sex industry then) as I wondered about this vague urge to pee that would build with my orgasms. But I found that there was peeing and there was cumming. They didn't work simultaneously. Like, I couldn't even if I tried, pee at the same time that I was cumming. That said, all the exploring with all that warm wetness (not just mine but theirs) was pretty damn erotic. But, peeing and orgasm were two distinctly different things.
So now, I can't not squirt when I cum. It's not a lot usually. Well, it varies. But I always tri-fold a towel under me.
Happy hunting for that illusive squirt! Enjoy the journey! 🤪💋
It happened once, after a very successful attempt and completion of anal she was literally moaning I did the reach around put in two fingers with a thumb rub and she exploded. I am sure the erotic part of the anal helped but I suspect it was a lot of g spot stimulation and the threefingered cul de sac technique.
A clit vacuum toy always does it for me for some reason? Maybe because I’m forced to let go? Whenever I crack that out I have to grab my splash blanket hehe 🫶🏻
I was about to say the same thing!! the clit sucking toy makes me squirt everytime ♡
Contrary to what porn wants us to believe, the latest research on squirting refers to it as “a rare event.” And Masters and Johnson said that less than 5% of women squirt. There are no anatomical structures in a woman’s pelvis that can produce more than approximately a teaspoon of fluid and shoot it out of her body besides her bladder. Call it what you like, when a woman squirts more than that during sex, the fluid is urine.
As for "female ejaculation," female ejaculate is produced in very small amounts by the Skene’s glands. These are tiny glands that line part of the urethra in about two-thirds of women. The one-third of women who don’t have Skene’s glands do not produce female ejaculate, yet they can have orgasms that are every bit as intense as the orgasms of any women who have enough Skene’s glands to fill a stadium.
In the two-thirds of women who do have Skene’s glands, some have very few glands, and others have more, so the amount of ejaculate will vary from just a drop or two, to a bit more than a milliliter which, is one-fifth of a teaspoon.
Also, women don’t have the kind of muscles around their urethra that can cause what ejaculate they might produce to come out like male ejaculate. So a woman’s ejaculate might go into her bladder. Again, none of this has anything to do with the intensity of a woman’s orgasms.
Setting aside time to read this tonight — but I have just the toy recommendation for you x
Haven't you seen “Indaniana Jones and the Quest for the Lost Squirt”?
it happened to me once when i hooked up with a porn star so i know i could do it. just need to find someone else who would know how to.
A Question Nobody Needs Answered. May I join your party for this quest?
Yes ImmaPirate... and also a dude.