Love is an inward feeling from the inward self that tends to control the body and soul, being in love is not a crime but is a crime to fall for the wrong person, as a partner U are to him call him together have a moment with him get to know his plans how fruitful it is, a plan that will benefit both U and him, then insert your own logical ideology. Let him know about your past relationship how absurd it was and that U won't like to experience that again. But I will advise that you don't immerse yourself deeply into him until he get to crawl out from his bubbles.
She's waiting for him to do what? Does he have plans for a new career, skills, opportunities or is he sitting at home waiting for her to make dinner? What is he doing to change his situation? You cripple someone when you take away the pressure to succeed. He should move out, and if they want to continue to see each other while he learns to support himself, that would be ok, but only if she gets the help SHE needs for why she takes in "projects" instead of "equals." Two men in a row with the same problem is a LOUD message.
Love is an inward feeling from the inward self that tends to control the body and soul, being in love is not a crime but is a crime to fall for the wrong person, as a partner U are to him call him together have a moment with him get to know his plans how fruitful it is, a plan that will benefit both U and him, then insert your own logical ideology. Let him know about your past relationship how absurd it was and that U won't like to experience that again. But I will advise that you don't immerse yourself deeply into him until he get to crawl out from his bubbles.
Yeah... Ditch him.
She's waiting for him to do what? Does he have plans for a new career, skills, opportunities or is he sitting at home waiting for her to make dinner? What is he doing to change his situation? You cripple someone when you take away the pressure to succeed. He should move out, and if they want to continue to see each other while he learns to support himself, that would be ok, but only if she gets the help SHE needs for why she takes in "projects" instead of "equals." Two men in a row with the same problem is a LOUD message.